HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU

Girls,

Have you been in an situation when a guy ask you for your mobile number but never call? Have you been on a 1st date and then your date said that he was going to give you a call but never did?

This would bewilder a girl and have her guessing the reason for weeks or even months!!If you ask your friends' opinions, they would just try to console you by saying that "He's going to give you a call soon enuff" or "Maybe he's afraid to make the first move" or "Perhaps he just bewildered by your outstanding intelligence and beauty" and blah blah blah..

Well. those things are nice to hear, but has it occured to you that probably "HE'S JUST NOT INTO YOU???"

He's Just Not That Into You is a self-improvement book written by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo that was published in 2004. It was a New York Times bestseller and was featured on The Oprah Winfrey Show.

The book was inspired by an episode of Sex and the City titled "Pick-A-Little, Talk-A-Little," in which Miranda asks Carrie's boyfriend, Jack Berger, to analyze the post-date behavior of a potential love interest. Because the man declined Miranda's invitation to come up to her apartment after the date, stating that he has an early meeting, Berger concludes, "He's just not that into you," adding, "When a guy's really into you, he's coming upstairs, meeting or no meeting."

A film based on the book was released by Warner Bros. on February 6, 2009.Produced by Flower Films, filming was completed at the end of 2007. On June 26, 2008, the release date had been moved from October 24, 2008 to February 6, 2009. The film boasts an all star cast of: Ben Affleck, Jennifer Anniston, Drew Barrymore, Jennifer Connely, Justin Long and Scarlett Johansson.

Since the age of 5, Gigi (Ginnifer Goodwin) has been told that when men act like jerks, it means they like her.

Years later, Gigi is now struggling to find true love while shifting through men who are simply not interested. After her latest date, Conor (Kevin Connolly), has failed to call her, Gigi visits a bar he said he frequented in order to see him. There, she is approached by Alex (Justin Long), a friend of Conor's who works at the bar. Gigi claims she is waiting for Connor, since she needs to return a dentist's pen to him. However, Alex quickly sees through her lie, claiming Connor's dentist is his father (not the name written on the pen). Gigi admits that Connor is not expecting her, and explains her confusion over his lack of response. Alex tells her that Connor isn't interested, and then takes it upon himself to explain the "signs" to Gigi.

Meanwhile, Connor, having just left his date with Gigi, calls his girlfriend Anna (Scarlett Johansson). Anna is shopping in the supermarket and runs into Ben (Bradley Cooper). He tells her to go before him in line, citing an indecision about gum as the reason. Anna tells Connor she has to go, and, as she is checking out, is awarded a cooler as a 1000th visitor gift. The two exchange numbers outside when Ben says he knows someone who can help Anna with her singing career. After a few moments of hesitation, Ben admits that he is married. The two part, and Ben walks over to a car and gets in. Neil (Ben Affleck) then asks Ben what that was about.

When Neil returns home, he is greeted by his girlfriend of seven years, Beth (Jennifer Aniston). She announces that her younger sister is getting married. Neil, who is in the kitchen making tea, tells Beth that he doesn't believe in marriage. Beth, who desperately wants to get married to Neil, doesn't understand why he dislikes the idea so much.

Ben meets his wife Janine (Jennifer Connelly) back at their new townhouse, currently being renovated.

Gigi, excited about the tips Alex gave her, eagerly shares them with her coworkers, Janine and Beth. Gigi explains that if he's interested, he'll make the first move, and if he's not, he won't. When she claims that there are exceptions, but that the majority are not, she unintentionally implies that Neil will never marry Beth, since they have been together for 7 years and they haven't married yet.

Beth confronts Neil when she goes home, saying she can't deal with it anymore. When Neil continues to refuse to get married, the two break up.

The movie teaches us all a lot of lessons in the "dating game"..The most important message in the movie is: LOVE JUST CAN'T BE FORCED...If a guy likes you enuff, he's going to call you again and ask for another date, if he doesn't, that means that he's just that into you, maybe you're just not his type, or maybe there's no chemistry between both of you..Or simply, he has a better choice in mind.

You can't FORCE someone to do things that you like him to do..If he loves you enuff, he would do it for you on his own will at his own time..

Most importantly: DO NOT EVER GIVE UP ON LOVE!! Your true love IS out there!You just have to wait for the perfect time to find them!!